Our Fantastic Family Of Four Forever Believes

"Other things may change us, but we start and end with family" Anthony Brandt

Monday, January 19, 2009

IT'S GOTTA BE DONE!!

There are ALWAYS things that have to be done. No matter how much we put them off, or try to justify finding another time to do it, it will always lurk in our minds and we know that they must be dealt with. I am mainly talking about health concerns and regular routine appointments. Our 4 day weekend was a busy one, and yet a time to relax and catch up on much needed rest!


Friday was a VERY busy day. I stated out the morning by cooking for the Teacher Appreciation luncheon that out kids' school was having. The theme was A Southern theme. I cooked Dirty Rice and some French bread. I had to have this ready by 8 am! I was PUSHING it, but I got it done! Jerry and I then went to Bailee's Award Ceremony at school and watched her receive her awards.



After we left school, We went to my doctor's appointment which I have had scheduled for 2 weeks. I have been having terrible headaches and back pain and I could not stand it anymore. I was not being able to get around like I was use to and I wanted to be able to do the things that I love the most. After several x- rays, I was told that I have a curve in my spine, (Which I already knew) and to take it easy and not to lift any heavy things. Jerry and I moved a lot of furniture last week, and I strained muscles in my back. I CANNOT stand being in mobile and not doing the things I love most, which is cooking and taking care of my family. BUT through many prayers from Jerry and the kids, The Lord has allowed to do continue to do so. It has been painful, but my love for my family has gotten me through! I DO NOT want my children to see me in pain, so I sucked it up and just remembered who was the ultimate healer, My Lord! This condition I have will not go away and will only continue, but I have been told of many ways by the doctor to ease the situation and find ways of dealing with it. After the Doctor's appointment, Jerry and I had a great lunch in Bastrop at a great ole country buffet named Granny's. It is a little hole in wall, but has the best food in the world! We even saw my Uncle John Calvin there!! We had a great time, and it was just like when we were dating! We then went home and unwinded for a minute before getting the kids. The kids had 2 check up visits this 4 day weekend. I try to schedule appointments on days like Friday after school and sometimes on holidays like today. I have a strict homework schedule and I don't like for the kids to have to go somewhere right after school. There are some expectations like Caiden's Piano lessons (which he is starting back tomorrow) and Bailee's tutoring. They both went to the eye doctor Friday after school. Caiden had already been a couple of weeks ago, and had his yearly check up. Yes, his eyes have gotten slightly worse, because of a rapid growth spurt, and we got new glasses for him. But this visit he got a new pair of contacts! We have already tried this once before, and he really tried to wear them. But we had no great success earlier. He was just too young to have the responsibility of putting them and taking then out. I was there for him, helping him put them in and out, but found that it was too time consuming in the mornings right before school. I will always help my children try to adjust to something unfamiliar and new, but there comes a time when they should get the "hang of it" and do for themselves and Caiden was not ready for this responsibility. But Friday, He put the new contacts in and took them out ALL by himself!!I was soo proud of him! I think he is ready now! And with baseball season coming up, he really needs to wear them for protection. I feel like it would be so much more safe this way incase he gets hit by the ball! He is looking forward to baseball and Not having to wear glasses. I feel bad for him for he has not gotten to wear them a lot this weekend because his allergies have been bothering him, and I didn't not want him to even try to wear them. I was worried about germs and eye infections. Bailee had her routine eye exam and as we expected, her eyes have also gotten worse. Also due to growth spurts. Jerry and I helped her pick out a cute new pair of glasses that were so adorable on her! I cannot wait for them to come in next week!! She is gonna look so great!




We left there and went to get Caiden and Bailee's prize for their good grades!! Jerry and I are soo proud of them!! We then went to Catfish King for supper and headed home. Saturday was downtime for us. Caiden's asthma was trying to come about. We know the sign and the clues when he is about to start having difficulties. So we took the certain precautions, started breathing treatments and we tried to make him rest in bed with his PlayStation. He was feeling somewhat good and decided to go the the ULM Basketball Saturday with Jerry and Bailee. If I kept Caiden from doing things he loved from asthma, well, he would never do anything. This is a condition that we have to deal with realistically, and I cannot keep him locked up from the world forever. The older he gets, the more he has to finds ways on improving on this condition and not letting it get the best of him. He loves to play sports and sometimes asthma gives him a hard time , but he has learned his limits and pretty knows when it's time to rest, I said SOMETIMES, he is an 11 year old boy, he is running non-stop!! All in all, Jerry had to come home with him from the game. I feel so bad for him because he wants to do so much, but he sometimes can't. This is something we have learned to live with, it could be worse, there are so many worse off. So Saturday night, I monitored him, waited on him hand and foot! Jerry and Bailee went to church Sunday, and I stayed home and took care of Caiden. I had a big Sunday lunch prepared of roast. Jerry and Bailee went to the girls ULM Basketball game and Caiden and I watched it on tv. We saw Jerry and Bailee live on tv!! Monday morning Jerry woke up and cooked pancakes for breakfast. Yes, I do most of the cooking, BUT sometimes Jerry conjures ideas up an decides on going on a cooking frenzy! And I must admit, he does make the best hamburgers ever! I have tried to contest this and make a big deal out of it, but he still to this day makes the best burger! I just can't seem to win this battle! We had decided a couple of days ago, to let Caiden and Bailee have friends over. I knew that Bailee's friends Ashley was out of town most of the weekend, and Caiden usually has friends over after homework. Bo was hunting with his dad, and Caiden knew Bo was not going to be home. Jerry and I decided to see how he felt before we would allow him to play. When Caiden's asthma acts up, the main thing is to make sure it doesn't get to rowdy in playing, like football, like he has been playing the last two weeks. He loves to play with his cousin Patrick because they play a lot of video games. Patrick already had plans and he wanted to go play at his house, but Jerry and I felt like he needed to stay at home because all his meds and breathing treatment stuff was at home. This is not always the case, but we just felt like it was more safe this way at this time. I hated for them not being able to play. So after consoling Caiden and trying to make him understand his situation, Jerry decided to make it a father and son outing. I looked up movie times for them to go to the movies. This was a great way to have fun but doing it while relaxing and not using too much effort, which is what Jerry and I wanted for Caiden.They had a great time. Ashley came over that morning and I stayed at home with the girls. They sang and danced and played barbies. They got to jump on the trampoline too. The kids also had dental appointments that day. Routine cleaning of teeth,I know it doesn't sounds like fun, but it is just another one of those things that has to be done! Everything went great and even though they didn't look forward to going, one day they will appreciate the importance of this yearly check up. They say a smile is Worth a thousand words..right?! I cooked Shrimp Creole for supper and it was a great change! And with Mardi Gras approaching, I thought it would be fun!I wanted to cook something different, and I have a weekly schedule made up in advance of what I am going to cook. I deviated a little from my schedule(which I seldom do) but I wanted to surprise everyone! We had a productive/ relaxing weekend/ kinda sickly weekend, if that makes sense! They are somethings that we have to do, even though we want to put them off, but in the long run it is worth it in the end!Next weekend, we are hoping just to have fun since those little things are now taken care of!













Saturday, January 17, 2009

CAIDEN AND BAILEE'S 3RD SIX WEEKS AWARD ASSEMBLY

Congratulations to Caiden and Bailee for an AWESOME six- weeks!!

Jerry and I are so proud of them!
I have made school assignments and Homework a MAJOR propriety in our home life.I have a strict rule that homework be done before any extra- activity is pursued. I know that get tired of me harping on education, but I know one day they will realize how important education is to their future! Since I am home again, I feel that is my duty as a mother that I make sure that Caiden and Bailee put their education before just about anything, besides God and family. With Jerry traveling most of the year, I have to split time with them. Making sure I spend ample time with each child. BUT, now that Jerry is home, we can split the studying time, and it has for sure helped their grades!!
Let me say first that each child is different, and learns at their own pace. It takes discipline and patience on both parts. The teacher and the student. I have learned Caiden and Bailee's strong points and their weaknesses. I have learned so much about how to pace each child's learning capacity and to let learning come natural, not to force anything on them. Sometimes it can lead to discouragement and frustration, so no matter what happens during study time, PRAISE and encouragement are a requirement!
Caiden has done soo well and He always comes up fighting in the end! His grades improved dramatically. He made ALL A's this six weeks! He got a ribbon for all A's , Perfect attendance, and BUG list. Which means his grades improved! He made A-B honor Roll last 6-weeks.

I am very proud of him, it's very hard to pull up grades in the middle of the year. I am also proud of him for making perfect attendance. Caiden's asthma sometimes gets the best of him, and he has to miss a day or two of school each six weeks. He has had pneumonia all ready this year,( which usually happens twice a year), and I am so proud that even though he has missed a lot of school this year, he can still maintain a great grade point average!

Jerry and I are so proud of him!
My little Bailee Grace is such a trooper! Like I said before, each child is different, and Learns at their on pace. Bailee is such a disciplined student and person. She has a set schedule for EVERYTHING she does. And I mean everything. She has really turned into a very responsible young lady. It is amazing how much is has grown up in the last couple of months. I NEVER have to tell her to get her study material out at 8 pm, she is always ready and willing to study at the appointed time!
And that's what I am trying to instill in them. A great studying routine is essential for them in the future.If they develop great study habits now, the more the learning process will come natural. Hey, I am not a certified teacher, I am learning like them as we go! I am just a mother trying to be the best I can be, I am not PERECT, and I get frustrated just like they do!
Bailee is in a HARD grade. With 4th grade comes new standardized testing, and they expect so much from kids now- a -days. Bailee has had some concern with this, and shares it with me daily.
I help her with these struggles and often explain them to her so she can get a better grip on certain issues. Not only do I help her daily with this, but she also has tutoring on Tuesday and Wednesday's. She is doing really doing great, improving everyday, and her confidence level is only going up. This is my job I feel, to help her gain the up most confidence and to always believe in herself!
Bailee did great this 6-weeks! She made B Honor roll!
She was so proud of herself, and was looking forward to receiving awards that were so well deserved!
She also received an award for Reading 180. Two students were chosen out of the 4th grade for these awards. She chose this class instead of an elective to improve on her reading skills and comprehension. I thought that this was very grown up of her and showed her eagerness to improve on her grades! She has so improved in this subject!

Bailee and her friends!
She was so proud of her ribbon!
I am so very proud of both of my children!
There is no feeling like going to awards assembly and seeing your children being recognized for such hard work and determination and for being the best student they can be!
It is very rewarding as a parent. I pray daily for the Lord's guidance in teaching my children about life, love,and the great rewards that await them. They can only know this by being hard working discipline kids that can latter appreciate their hard work, and they can see what they do can lead to great success! The key is to try and never give up and ALWAYS believe in yourself!
Congratulations to Caiden and Bailee! Keep up the great work!

Mommy and Daddy will ALWAYS be proud of you no matter what!!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

BOYS AND BB GUNS

Caiden and Bo are the bestest of friends. They love spending time together.They share so much of the same interests.

They are always going back and fourth to each other's house's.


They love playing football and baseball together, and trading sports cards.

This past weekend, Bo and Caiden decided to shoot their guns.

They shot at various trees in our yard.

Their main objective... pine cones and branches!!

They succeeded!























No matter what Caiden and Bo do, they always have a good time!























Sunday, January 11, 2009

DADDY'S GIRL

My Bailee Grace loves her daddy. She has really enjoyed the time she has spent with him over the past couple of weeks. She is growing up so fast and so has many new interests. I often see her as that little toddler that was playing with her little baby doll, and rocking that little baby in her arms. I can remember the times when she would tell me "mommy, baby is hurt, she needs a band aid." Bailee has always had a strong motherly instinct. She has recently taking on some these roles. Especially when Jerry is gone. When I am tied up doing things, she has always stepped up and helped me.She often loads the dishwasher and helps fold clothes. Rather it be helping me cook, or simply writing me a little note telling me that I am the best mother a girl could ask for. She is often the one who set's her alarm clock, making sure that she is up ,and she makes sure my coffee pot was set on AUTO, for she knows momma needs coffee first thing! She always helps fold clothes and always has her clothes laid out out for school. Bailee's heart is so big, and there is always room there for love, and forgiveness. Bailee is so much like her daddy. She always see the best in people, and knows that even though there can be dishonesty, and disappoint, there is always room for forgiveness, for they both see the best intention was offered. Jerry and her share the likeness of putting other's happiness before their very own. They love to see others happy. Their hearts are quickly twinged at seeing other's getting joy. How I admire their thoughtfulness and unselfishness. So, you can see why Bailee and her dad have such a special bond. Not only is Bailee taking on Jerry's traits physically, (for when she was born, she looks identical to me, but she looks more like her dad), but she also has taken on his special disposition and heart. Bailee is embarking on new roads, and she is finding her place in this world. I dread some this this new experiences that she will encounter. Such as her 1st heartbreak, and her finding out that this world is not as innocent and forgiving as she is. I feel somewhat of a hesitance to let her go (one day I will , but not now, I am holding on to every moment I have with her). But I know that deep in my heart, she will take with her the lessons and experiences that we have instilled in her. Jerry and I have so many hopes and dreams for our Bailee Grace, and we know that she will one day, when we least expect it,will make a big difference in this world.
But for now, one thing is constant and never changing... and that is she will always be DADDY'S GIRL.





Saturday, January 10, 2009

THE CIRCLE OF FRIENDSHIP

"A Friend Loveth At All Times"
Proverbs 17:17